I’m a student of the science of happiness and do you know what I’ve learned?
There are really only two emotional states: joyously happy and able to become joyously happy.
What’s it going to be for you today? I’m not saying it’s easy, but it is up to you.
Want to know how to impress your friends and neighbors?
The secret to being seen as absolutely stunning, wildly successful and amazingly brilliant is simple:
Choose to be happy.
Works every time.
One of my favorite quotes is from David Lykken, a behavioral geneticist who discovered:
“Happy is as happy does.”
The point being that nearly half of our happiness is determined by our thoughts and actions.
So even when it’s difficult to be happy you can still act happy.
How are you “doing happy” today?
A very wise man once told me, “When you lighten up, things brighten up.”
Of course, he was right and his words made quite an impression. So, do you know what I did?
I married him!
Twenty some years later, I still think it’s good advice, don’t you?
Let’s all lighten up.
Studies show that people who make “to-do” lists get more done.
As you are making your list today, don’t forget to add at least one of the following (better yet, come up with one of your own):
- Smile until my cheeks hurt.
- Dance like I did in high school.
- Sing, loudly, even if I don’t know the lyrics.
- Jump, hop or skip.
- Laugh until the tears come.
You do plan to feel happy today, don’t you?
Then why wouldn’t you be as deliberate about that as you are the “important” stuff? I mean, what’s really important, after all?
Congratulations! You are one of the lucky winners!
As of 12:01 this morning, you have 1,439 more minutes to make yourself happy today.
But that’s not all…
If everything goes well, you’ll have the same opportunity tomorrow!
How will you spend it all?
Your happiness, good fortune, peace of mind and mood-of-the-moment are not dependent on or even influenced by anyone else but you.
You didn’t need to be reminded of that, did you?
Today is the first day of spring break at my house. That may explain why this article, Why a Vacation Will Make You Happier than a New Car, caught my eye this morning. I’m not in the market for a new car, but taking a trip always makes me happy. I also am pleased whenever science agrees with me. Today I get to enjoy both.
Bon Voyage!
I often enjoy Gretchen Rubin’s Happiness Project blog. This post offers tips that are particularly timely for people dealing with change and are also good advice for anyone wanting to feel happier. Who wouldn’t want that?

It’s been a week since my last Habitual Happiness class, so I have happiness on the brain. Not a bad thing to be thinking about during the holidays (or any time for that matter.) This morning I ran across a map that was published in The New York Times in March which shows survey results from a Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index which attempts to “measure what it is that people believe constitutes a good life, who is feeling good about life, and who is in need of a helping hand.”
Overall the west coast reports being happier than people living on the east coast. No surprise there. But Oregon is ranked less happy than California, which I attributed that to rain and gray skies until I noticed that Washington is happier than Oregon as well. So, by the west coast’s higher happiness standards, we aren’t doing quite as well as our neighbors to the north and south. Any ideas on why that might be?
Knowing that there is a growing number of people in Oregon who are becoming “habitually happy” makes me optimistic that we can affect future results of this survey. Are you with me? What are you doing to contribute to the happiness of the state?
